Enjoy Service, Dislike Assignments
"I enjoy service submission, but sometimes dislike the actual assignments given by Dominants. How do I do things well, when I don't want to do it?" That’s totally an understandable situation. I...
View ArticleScreening Service Submissives
Dear Sarah, I am a Dominant looking for a service submissive, what is best way to screen someone? Signed, K.
View ArticleService Advice
Dear Sarah: As a service submissive I know my voice should be respectful when I'm addressing my dominant, but I have a naturally bratty tone to my voice. What can I do to improve that, and make sure...
View Article‘Polishing up’ service skills
Dear Sarah, I'm a service submissive that is currently looking for a Dominant, and in the meantime I'd like to improve my skills. Do you have any recommendations for 'polishing' up my service skills?
View ArticleTo Be or Not To Be of Service
By Miss Indigo I knew this moment would come. The moment where my partner would ask me to try something we have never tried before. For months, we have been carefully watching other couples, trying to...
View ArticleService Sweeter Than Wine
By GrayDancer "It's like this," JP said, gesturing at the glass of wine between us. It was back-lit by the small candle on the table, next to the plate with the three truffles - correction, one truffle...
View ArticleAching to Serve
By Sarah Sloane Dear Sarah, I identify as a slave in a full-time Master/slave dynamic with a strong service component to our relationship. I also suffer from chronic pain which has persisted over a...
View ArticleWhere to start?
Dear Sarah, My partner and I are just starting to explore service-giving & receiving, and I must confess that I’m stumped as to how to start. Yesterday, I helped her dress and tied her shoes, and I...
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